Rebuilding relationships - Funerals
Funerals have, and continue to be, significantly impacted by the pandemic. There is a huge need for bereavement care and a need to re-establish good contact with Funeral Directors. This page will be updated with resources to help you share God’s love and hope with those in your community. See coronavirus guidance from the Church of England just here. Despite a general lifting of restrictions on funerals, there are still some who are worried about attending events which will have with lots of people present. Not attending a funeral is a very difficult experience for people, in spite of recent suggestions that ‘no fuss’ is a good idea. The reality is many will feel additional grief, especially if they could not say goodbye properly.
FREE RESOURCES FOR FUNERALSWEBINARSBroadcast on April 21st 2021, this webinar on Bereavement Support may be helpful. DOWNLOADS1. Invitation to remember card: Download it here. This card has been specially designed to send or give to anyone who has been bereaved during the Coronavirus pandemic. Use it to show your sympathy for their loss and to warmly invite them to talk to you about ways to remember the person that they miss; whether that means making plans for a remembering service, coming in to church to sit quietly and pray, or being involved in another way of remembering in your community. You can also have this card printed in packs of 5 – visit the Church Print Hub to place your order.
2. Thanks, pray, remember: an inter-generational service for remembering someone special who has died. Download it here. This service has been particularly designed to include those who may have experienced loss for the first time, especially of a grandparent, and been unable to go to their funeral.
3. Funerals Industry support card (E-mailable version). Download it here Show solidarity, appreciation and care for your local Funeral Director and crematoria staff by sending a simple card. This version can be e-mailed, but if you’d prefer to put a card in the post, order your pack from the Church Print Hub.
4. Reflection for use at home for those who can't attend a funeral. DOWNLOAD IT HERE. A service that can be said at home to remember someone who has died. To be used on the day of the funeral or at any time to reflect on the person’s life and find comfort. These service sheets can be sent out to people who cannot attend a funeral, perhaps with a prayer card You can also order packs of 50 ready-printed reflections just here.
5. Sympathy card for those who can't attend a funeral. SEE THE QUICK DOWNLOAD VERSION HERE. A card to offer comfort to people who can’t attend a funeral. It features a short prayer which could be said at home on the day of the funeral, or the days after. You can order packs of ready-printed cards just here on the Church Print Hub.
6. Bookmark-style prayer card for those who can't attend a funeral. DOWNLOAD IT HERE. These bookmark-sized cards can be sent out to remind people that God is with them and their friends and family when they cannot gather together for a funeral. They feature a short prayer which could be said at home on the day of the funeral or the days after. You can order packs of ready-printed prayer cards on the Church Print Hub, just here.
7. Poster to raise awareness of the online light a candle tool – helpful for people who can't attend a funeral. SEE THE QUICK DOWNLOAD VERSION HERE “Show you care when you can’t be there” A poster to display in your community, on the church noticeboard.
8. Downloadable social media images to raise awarenesss of the online light a candle feature Download here. “Show you care when you can’t be there” A social media download pre-sized for Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. Light a Candle is a way of remembering someone who has died and of marking their funeral even when you can’t be there in person. Post this image on social media to offer support to people who are grieving alone at home.
9. E-mailable booklet to send to anyone who may be thinking about planning their own funeral – DOWNLOAD IT HERE Death and funerals make daily headlines, and this can be a prompt for people to think about their own mortality. Losing someone close can also highlight how difficult it can be to plan a funeral for someone else, especially if they didn’t leave behind any ideas for what they wanted. Becoming ill, or having a close brush with death can also make people think about their funeral. Whatever the reason, people in your parish may want to think about planning their own funeral in order to help their surviving family when that time arrives. The attached document will help them to do that. It includes choices that are available in a church-led funeral and space to record preferences. It can be easily emailed to anyone as a PDF attachment along with this link for more detailed information: https://www.churchofengland.org/life-events/funerals/my-funeral-plans. |